Speak Humbly: Practice

One day I became angry with my watchman. After some days he showed his anger to me.
For some days I felt anger. One day I realize to be humble, to be pure. I stopped my bad emotions. I changed my behavior with him, irrespective of whether he changes or not.
After some days, he also started talking peacefully.

Its not that difficult to change, I need to just start. Be humble. Be your self even if you don't like others self. still you should remain yourself. you are you and they are they. you don't have any right over the other. and there is nothing others do that can affect you. You unnecessarily take it so personally. Somebody says something and you get offended. In practical only air has touched my earlobes. Nobody even physically hits you.

Its just your interpretation of the air that reached earlobes or the images that reached eyes that causes the misery. Otherwise there was nothing big happening there. It was just a new form of reality. If reality is god, it was another form of god. I should have accepted it bowing down.

Second date

While writing last post, I suddenly felt that I need to forgive someone since they don't insult me, they are being natural, but its me feeling insulted. I felt I could correct my mistake for helding them responsible. I got a strong urge again to go and meet someone immediately.
I didn't do anything but just observed. It disappeared very quickly.

What to do when somebody Insults you

No body is insulting us. They are just being themselves.
Insult is your interpretation based on your conditioning. They have nothing to do with you. They are trying to be themselves. why something should go on in my mind when somebody is being himself. Somebody is trying to express himself. Its has no relation to me.

The second link has a discussion on it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3zaimu_Pw1w&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UY-3TDvnWSs&feature=related

My First Date: The Urge

To know background of this post, please read the post on urge.

I was watching TV when it happened. Movie was original Sin. Angelina suddenly wakes up after a bad dream and starts screaming. Antonio calms her down and gives her comfort and care. When this scene goes on and I Antonio embracing her lovingly, I too felt the urge to do the same.

I gathered myself and decided to watch the urge. Surprisingly in a matter of seconds the urge disappeared. Probably some traces are left, I need to find out how strong they are.

I was pleasant surprise to see me getting over the urge and being normal very quickly.

this was the first date or the first date that I remember right now.

It was pleasant and lets keep finger crossed and I am eagerly waiting for the next one...

till then keep listening :)

Speak humbly

बोली एक अमोल है जो कोई बोले जानी
हृदय तराजू टोली कई तब मुख बाहर आणि

Please remember, that what you speak is priceless.
First you weigh your words in your heart and then they should come out from your mouth.

एसी वाणी बोलिए मन का आपा खोये
औरन को शीतल करे आपही शीतल होए

Speak such words, so that the ego of the self disappears while speaking.
Your words should have calming effect not only on others but also on yourself.

It is possible for us to speak the calm words. It takes practice. We can choose to react. We are not automated to respond in certain way. We have a choice. We can learn to exercise that choice.

We need not react. We can respond in a calm manner. It will pacify us and it will pacify others.

The urge

What should I do, when I have an urge.

Just observing it should help.

It is me that allows an urge to become so stronger that nothing else but the object of desire is seen.

Sometime I have seen urge passing. It probably passes. Its my decision to follow it makes it big.
Otherwise it seems it will pass. Infact nobody can stop it. It has no other way but to pass.

It also has a life. How long it will live depends on what nourishment we give to it.

Lets try observing it next time and I will also write how did it go. How long it lasted.
Did I succumb to urge. Did I fight with it, Did I suppress it. Or was I able to learn how to be with it and still being detached from it.

It will be interesting to meet her, It will be my date with it.

I will blog about my date in all her nudity. I will blog about all the pleasures and all the pain of the date..

In fact I might have many dates by the next time I blog.

They are all very eager. They all want to go all the way with me.. Lets see how it goes... Its a suspense. Its a pleasant suspense created by God....